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Sunday, May 3, 2009

Ex Girlfriend Revenge

Sometimes, when you have been cheated on, the need for revenge against your philandering partner can be consuming.It is not because you are an evil person or that you are a psychopath, you are just so damned hurt and angry that you feel the need to lash out. You want to hurt your ex as much as they have hurt you. They have moved on but you just can't seem to. They have betrayed your trust and you want to get even! Perfectly understandable that you would be a revenge cheating girlfriend.

What you need to do is pretty simple and it should work if planned out right. Wait until your spouse is with a group of friends or amongst a group of so called important people to them. You could even do this with family members. Take a photo of 2 nude people, just go to a soft porno site to do this, get the picture developed, and make sure it looks half way decent as a fake photo.
Now, once the cheating spouse is with these people, its time for attack, go over accuse them of cheating, of course, the spouse will deny it, just like the cheating little dogs they are, however, you have proof, yes, now wave this proof around yelling I have proof, I have proof, however, be a little clever here, do not let anyone see the photo head on. Now, the time has come to walk out from where ever the spouse is, leave them shocked, embarrassed, and humiliated. Perfect.


Women often resort to trashing the guy's car. This is also a good idea since guys love their cars so much. Just make sure you really got that car. You can throw nails all over his driveway. If his car is not int he garage, then it's your time to smash it. Then ran away. Whatever he says to the police, he has no evidence. So make sure you run fast.

Throwing his belongings out in the street and setting fire to them on the front lawn after knowing he had passed all those cheating boyfriend test is also a good idea. Now he has nothing to have and you will get back from all the hatred he had cause you.

This is what women must not do to get revenge on their cheating boyfriends. Confronting his new girlfriend and creating a scene. For the record ladies…guys love a good "cat fight", it turns them on so…this approach will not bring you satisfaction! You will only have succeeded in degrading yourself while your ex enjoys the fact the two babes are fighting over his manly self!

In the "good old days" exacting revenge on a cheater required a "hands on approach". You had to actually physically perform the dirty deed yourself. Not anymore. Thanks to a few clever entrepreneurs and the marvels of the World Wide Web, revenge is at your fingertips and you don't even have to leave your seat to get it! Dead flowers, nasty baskets, break up services, email campaigns, letter packages, smelly candy, picture editing and an arsenal of other nasty pranks are at your disposal for a price.

In my opinion, the best revenge on any cheater, male or female is to move on quickly and be happy! Even if you have to fake it for a while. It makes the cheater feel very disposable in insignificant just as they have made you feel. Anyway, there's always a better persona round that will love you more and will never cheat on you.

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Thursday, April 30, 2009

Apology Letter For Cheating

Had you cheat on your spouse, girlfriend or boyfriend? And you are really sorry for this that you would give up everything in the world to get your relationship back on track? Well, if you do, then you've got to move on now. Start patching up your relationship by making an apology letter for cheating.

Sincerity is crucial for any apology. So, your apology letter should be personal (not something you've found written by someone else), as your partner knows you and will be able to tell if it sounds like something that is coming from you. It should be hand written, never typed. If you want your partner to listen to what you are saying, you need that personal touch of having your emotions flow through your writing.

Apologize for any pain that you may have caused the person, because if they care about you, you can be sure that you have hurt them deeply.


Step One
Decide how you want to greet or reference the person such as, 'Dear Sweetie' or 'Dear' followed by the person's name.

Step Two
Start out gentle because you need to keep the person reading. The person may not want to read the rest of it if you start offending with statements about him or her not understanding what happened or that he or she is being irrational. One of the best ways to start a letter like this is to apologize.

Step Three
The first thing to understand is that cheating often signifies that there is something wrong, or missing from your marriage. So, the goal before you truly apologize and promise all sweet things is to find out what that problem is, so once you and your wife move past the initial shock of your actions, you can decide how to best address the problem .

Step Three
When you apologize, do it from the heart. This means you will have to regret what you have done. Talk about how you wish it never happened and if you could, you would take it back. Let the person know how regretful you really are about it.

Step Four
After the apology, express how much the person means to you. Even if the relationship is not going to continue, you might still have some feelings towards the person, which you would like him or her to know about.

Step Five
The final part of your letter discusses where you would like to go from here. If you would like to try to make the relationship work, you can write about how you understand how you have betrayed the person's trust and it may take a long time before that trust will return. Make a point to say that you will stay by the person for as long as he or she needs to and do whatever it takes to rebuild the relationship. If the relationship has ended, let the person know you hope he or she finds happiness and love with someone else who will not deceive him or her as you have. This will show your maturity as well as give the person a sense of closure.

Remember that apology for cheating will not just end on giving the apology letter. There isn't going to be any way you can put a band aid on this situation. It is too hard to forget all those signs of cheating in a relationship that your partner had on you. In order to fix it, you're going to have to reprove your love, which means dealing with her lack of trust for you over a LONG period of time. Be willing to call her if you're going to be late from a night out with the boys and if she asks you be in touch, Do be in touch. As well don't give her reasons not to trust you. If you say that your going to be home by 11...then be home by 11. Remember, it takes a moment to breakdown trust and a lifetime to re-build it.

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Wednesday, April 22, 2009

Bored Cheating Housewives

The signs of cheating can vary for each individual. Some people are just plain better at deception than others. If you have a suspicion that your spouse may be secretly hiding an affair with another individual whatever you do do not confront your mate. Confronting your spouse can possibly make the affair harder to prove because they will go to even greater lengths to hide what is really going on. Instead, go over the list of signs of bored cheating housewives and if your significant other is showing or has shown more than a few of these it may be a good idea to hire a professional to get you solid evidence.

A few very common signs of a cheating spouse include:

•A change in sex life: The cheater wants nothing to do with sex, wants a lot more sex, or has unexplained sexual requests or utilizes new sexual techniques.

•A sudden change in appearance: He/She is working out all of a sudden; their taste in clothing has changed, change in cologne.

•The cheater has a definite attitude change towards everyone in the household especially the mate, picking fights for no reason.

•Unexplained absences, working late, hang up phone calls.

•The cheater may begin to find fault in his/her spouse to try to justify the affair.


•Unrecognized and frequently called phone numbers on your mates cell phone bill.

•Leaving home during an argument, many cheaters will provoke a fight so they can leave the home to call or visit the other person.

•Taking business or leisure trips alone

•Having new friends

•Taking showers as soon as returning home

•Will do the laundry when they never used to, or at a time when they normally would not. They may be trying to hide the signs of smoke, lipstick, bodily fluids, etc.

•Smelling of perfume or alcohol

•The Mileage on his/her vehicle seems excessive.

•Their use of the computer or internet is excessive or secretive.

•A gut feeling (intuition is real)

If you are familiar with one or more of these signs of cheating boyfriend, girlfriend and spouse, you may have a problem on your hands. It is not easy to admit that your spouse may be having an affair. Cheaters cheat for several different reasons but it is very important to remember if your spouse is indeed having an affair that it is NOT your fault. It is extremely common for the infidel to try to place the blame on you. Saying things like “I wouldn’t have done it if”… or “You refuse to do this, so”….

Attempts to shift the blame is nothing but the persons guilt spontaneously coming out during a stressful situation. Life is about choices and it was not your choice for your mate to cheat, it was theirs.

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Monday, March 9, 2009

Signs Of Cheating In A Relationship




Signs of cheating in a relationship is very hard to accept. You might think of spying to your spouse just to discover if he/she is cheating. But what are you going to do if you find out that he/she is really cheating? When you spy on your suspected cheating spouse, please make sure you consider all the possibilities you might encounter and whether you can handle them. Are you ready? Here are some specific questions to ask:

1) Do I have friends I can count on for support if I discover the worst? Do they know I might need them? Have I told them exactly how they might help me? Do I have the capacity to stand back from the deep emotions and not get mired or lost in destructive thoughts and feelings?

2) How have I handled emotional pain in the past? What if it gets almost unbearable? If I encounter the worst possible emotional hurt and pain, do I have a therapist I can contact immediately and see soon to help me through the rough spots?



3) You see the signs of a cheating spouse. What will be my strategy for what I find? Do I have a strategy for the different scenarios? Do I have a strategy to confront or not confront my spouse? How, when and under what circumstances will I confront him/her?

4) What kind of strategy will I have for self-care? What will I need to do to keep myself functioning somewhat effectively?

5) Do I have a coach or an objective someone who knows about cheating husbands and cheating wives and who can help me develop strategies and goals for confrontation and self-care? Someone to keep me focused and working on these strategies and goals?

6) Do I know what kind of affair I might face? Do I know the prognosis for that kind of affair? Have I educated myself about affairs and what I must do to effectively resolve and move through this crisis?

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